Help identifying ribbon bar

[pearlharborbaby]

The bar is a little wider then I've seen, has long pin across back, not the prongs with back to fasten kind, looks like purple, maybe purple heart? and off white which might have been white originally with red & gray stripe in middle, wondering if German maybe, can anyone help? thanks

[JBFloyd]

The second ribbon is the membership of the Reserve Officers Association, but the bar is upside down (center stripe should be red/blue/white). There aren't too many awards with plain purple ribbons, so this could be the French Order of the Academic Palms.